11 Parenting Mistakes That Ruin a Child’s Growth

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  • Published: 15 June 2019
  • All parents have their own – unique – way of bringing up their kids. Many of them work in order to be able to buy new toys for them, others are strict because they want their children to be disciplined and goal-oriented, others give their children a choice and teach them to make decisions on their own. Every family has its own ways of upbringing, but there is one thing that all parents have in common: when they look back, they all want to fix some of the mistakes they made in the past.

    The first years of a child’s life are a magical time that you should enjoy. Because in the future, you might regret some lost opportunities. So, take a look at the things that many parents regret in order to avoid repeating the same mistakes.

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    TIMESTAMPS:
    They scolded their children too often 0:22
    They missed out on the most important moments 1:09
    They didn’t play enough creative games 1:55
    They didn’t take enough photos and videos 2:39
    They didn’t take their child’s opinion into account 3:23
    They didn’t enjoy communicating with their child 4:18
    They didn’t educate them about money 4:57
    They didn’t make their child happy enough 5:50
    They didn’t hug their children often enough 6:35
    They weren’t consistent 7:20
    They often followed someone else’s advice 8:13

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    SUMMARY:
    - Reprimanding a child for something they did wrong is totally normal. But sometimes parents go overboard and it turns into nitpicking.
    - Even if you think you have a good reason to miss your child's school play, do your best to be present. Find time to visit grandma, go to the theatre, decorate your house for the holidays.
    - Of course, simply playing creative games with your kids won’t necessarily make them great artists or musicians in the future. But, hey, there’s always a chance. Doing this has a lot of other advantages as well.
    - Obviously, not taking photos won’t have any bad impact on your kids’ lives. But it’s the best way to capture amazing moments that you don’t want to forget.
    - “You’re too young to decide”, “Adults know better” are probably phrases you heard quite often when you were a kid. But this kind of attitude from parents can have a serious impact on a kid’s future.
    - Communication between parents and kids is probably the most important thing in upbringing. So if you don’t put aside enough time for it, one day you’ll wake up and realize that your child has grown up already and is living their own life.
    - Without education on personal finance and responsible spending, children don’t understand the real worth of money. And when they grow up, they find it hard to manage their own income.
    - Good memories from our childhood are a real treasure for most of us. We like to go back in our mind to that time when we were carefree, and quite often every day was filled with doing something for the first time.
    - Hugs are not only a perfect way to show affection, but also scientifically proven to be good for our health, because they help protect against stress.
    - Kids get confused about what’s allowed and what’s not. Without clear boundaries, they probably won’t behave the way you want them to, and obedience issues become inevitable.
    - Never forget that YOU are the parent, so it’s up to you to decide what’s best for your kids. Also, don’t let strangers scold your child for misbehaving.

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Comments • 2 500

  • BRIGHT SIDE
    BRIGHT SIDE   2 months back

    Hey there, BrightSiders, how many children would you like to have?

  • Chey but WHY?
    Chey but WHY?  4 days back

    " Bye Dad, thanks for *NOTHING* "

    • tallulah
      tallulah  4 days back

      video is good but the example of why you cant bring every dog home is wrong.. disease!.. promoting bad opinions on poor strays that have a hard life already. and teaching your kid to fear poor animals due to lurgies...shame

      • Boa Hancock
        Boa Hancock  5 days back

        I can relate to this a lot as a 14 teen

        • Dario Millan
          Dario Millan  6 days back

          I made it half way threw the video. Thanks, but I'd rather raise my kid to be an adult

          • Mr J
            Mr J  6 days back

            A mistake I definitely see alot of parents do is not hugging their children enough...for goodness sake show ur kid that u love them! I dk if it's some sort of " I'm too cool to do that" or a " he's gonna be soft thing"
            the ignorance of some people amazes me...

            • Chris Mazelle
              Chris Mazelle  6 days back

              well this dont work in a black household 😂

              • It's me K AOK
                It's me K AOK  7 days back

                Do something EXCITING every day with your kid..smhhh....

                • Surf Team
                  Surf Team  7 days back

                  how about leaving a bowl of water out and the iPad at 100% for the kids before you leave to hit the club at night? Thats the best advice ever.

                  • Jennifer Taylor
                    Jennifer Taylor  1 weeks back

                    Good Advice !

                    • Daicy & Mia Luv
                      Daicy & Mia Luv  1 weeks back

                      Thanks for this wonderful tips..

                      • Simply Kia
                        Simply Kia  1 weeks back

                        In this case I am the kid 😀

                        • C K
                          C K  1 weeks back

                          What’s wrong with pizza for lunch?

                          • Lineke L
                            Lineke L  1 weeks back

                            Good info!

                            • Leesa Unique
                              Leesa Unique  1 weeks back

                              Great info!! Having my daughter soon I’ll be sure to use these tips ♥️♥️🙏🏽

                              • Sophia Dolor
                                Sophia Dolor  1 weeks back

                                Well i have immatured parents

                                They asking me why i have pinoles
                                Why i have so many conversation like 😵

                                • J May
                                  J May  1 weeks back

                                  No parent is perfect. We all make mistakes. Mine made mistakes but I had a happy childhood. There are a few bad memories but mostly good.

                                  • cooking with adiy
                                    cooking with adiy  1 weeks back

                                    Great

                                    • Crystal Bee
                                      Crystal Bee  1 weeks back

                                      I have few (maybe 3) fond child hood memories of my parents. Most of the the mistakes the narrorator said parents make was made by my parents... the mistakes had a negative impact on me even now as an adult.

                                      • debralovesgospe
                                        debralovesgospe  1 weeks back

                                        Way to many people on this planet

                                        • Noah Aja
                                          Noah Aja  2 weeks back

                                          What ever we think is right and wrong to teach no matter what Humanity became the worst ever than animal. It's called Evilness. That why I believe we need GOD.

                                          • Jasmine Marshall
                                            Jasmine Marshall  2 weeks back

                                            Thx for my folks love ❤️ them

                                            • suppe rrl
                                              suppe rrl  2 weeks back

                                              Litterly all of these i renember in preschool kindergarden and first grade they would not come to school for any plays or ceramonies where i would get awards i would look for my mom and dad and they never be there compared to other kids with there families huging smileing

                                              • Odeth Magalong
                                                Odeth Magalong  2 weeks back

                                                Joanna Magalong

                                                • Smriti Roy
                                                  Smriti Roy  2 weeks back

                                                  Useful video but it should be in Hindi also

                                                  • MA FN
                                                    MA FN  2 weeks back

                                                    i trying to be better mom for my son..God please guide me alway🙏

                                                    • Eddy B
                                                      Eddy B  2 weeks back

                                                      So far I think am a great first time mum because I have more than enough time for my baby and I capture every wonderful moments of him don't want him out of my sight for 1 minute🙂the only downfall I have is the scolding part most Times but am human cant help it...but will try my best to make it much better...but not easy with kids thou🙂

                                                      • Kids Color Tv
                                                        Kids Color Tv  2 weeks back

                                                        I realize now why my husband being rude nowadays 🤔🤔

                                                        • Mervat Fayyad
                                                          Mervat Fayyad  2 weeks back

                                                          ♡♡♡♡

                                                          • CreativeQueen x
                                                            CreativeQueen x  2 weeks back

                                                            I am a parent. Thanks for this video. 😊

                                                            • Elizabeth Wahyuni
                                                              Elizabeth Wahyuni  2 weeks back

                                                              When my dad play the duck doll with me

                                                              When my dad care about me when I have a motor accident

                                                              When my mom didn't angry with me even I loss my gold necklace

                                                              When my mom give a chance to my boyfriend to work with her and the fact let me know that he was not the perfect guy for me.

                                                              Thanks God for my parents.
                                                              Of course they made mistakes.. But ithey're human, not angels

                                                              • Tamara in!
                                                                Tamara in!  2 weeks back

                                                                It's better fidling with phone than wearing a mask in front of people who ignore you...

                                                                • Lipika somya
                                                                  Lipika somya  2 weeks back

                                                                  4:60 though i didn't tell my 5 year toddler about money education but still when his father take leave from office my kid says dad why aren't you went to office if there is no Sunday if u take leave then what we will n what we will buy if there's no money. Actually sometimes we laugh n shocked also that my little kid is talking so maturely but we're happy that he learn something on his own. Thank u bright side cz it will give lots of parents best ideas to tackle with their children n parents will learn so many things which surely help in the future😀

                                                                  • DUKE ANDRE CRISTOBAL
                                                                    DUKE ANDRE CRISTOBAL  2 weeks back

                                                                    u know my mom left me

                                                                    • AwesomeKrisna
                                                                      AwesomeKrisna  2 weeks back

                                                                      I'm a kid and I'm depressed, Please help.


                                                                      I'm not joking, I'm actually depressed.

                                                                      • Akanksha Pathak
                                                                        Akanksha Pathak  2 weeks back

                                                                        Hey there,
                                                                        First of all, don't worry. Depression is very normal and all of us go through it at some point in our life.
                                                                        Find someone to talk to. Tell your parents about this. If they're supportive, go to a psychiatrist. But if they're not supportive, just google some helpline numbers who help people to battle with depression. Since you commented here, I'm sure you'll be able to search for your options.
                                                                        Talk with your friends, even if you're a boy. They'll always help you. Always know that people who actually know you will help you better than strangers!

                                                                    • bhavna Bhardwaj
                                                                      bhavna Bhardwaj  3 weeks back

                                                                      My favorite childhood memory is zero.

                                                                      • Saymé Pérez
                                                                        Saymé Pérez  3 weeks back

                                                                        This video was so helpful!! Thanks!

                                                                        • Mousmi Ranjan
                                                                          Mousmi Ranjan  3 weeks back

                                                                          Thanks for this video...

                                                                          • Swagglords_sis
                                                                            Swagglords_sis  3 weeks back

                                                                            Technically money does grow on trees because money is paper and paper comes from trees

                                                                            • Almasa Abu Hanish
                                                                              Almasa Abu Hanish  3 weeks back

                                                                              This is all true

                                                                              • Nandini Singh
                                                                                Nandini Singh  3 weeks back

                                                                                I can't have children because of some medical issues😔😔, but still watching this desperately 😔and wishing for a child ....

                                                                                • Chaz Barrientos
                                                                                  Chaz Barrientos  3 weeks back

                                                                                  Now I know why I have bipolar disorder and random insecurities

                                                                                  • Azrael Divine
                                                                                    Azrael Divine  3 weeks back

                                                                                    My parents never gave time to me so I don't have memories with them my elder brother raised me up being with him every time is my best memory

                                                                                    • Taj Mahal
                                                                                      Taj Mahal  3 weeks back

                                                                                      do something exciting each day? not realistic.

                                                                                      • James Madriaga241
                                                                                        James Madriaga241  3 weeks back

                                                                                        To have my life

                                                                                        • M F Q
                                                                                          M F Q  3 weeks back

                                                                                          I find it troubling when you say all parents so and so. My parents were nothing short of monstrous, and I was eventually removed. No, all parents do not do so and so. You should say “most” not “all”, in my opinion. Then it wouldn’t erase the experience of people like me. It is also simply more accurate.

                                                                                          • Ela Belmont
                                                                                            Ela Belmont  3 weeks back

                                                                                            You can be real good parent but your child become a monster... :((