Jeannie Says You Need To Be Your Own Upgrade In a Relationship


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  • Francesca Cesca
    Francesca Cesca  4 days back

    looove her!!!!!

    • Celest Rodriguez
      Celest Rodriguez  5 days back

      I love you Jheani Mai!!! Never settle !!

      • cc l
        cc l  1 weeks back

        Theres a ton of friendzoned dudes in the history of time that would cancel their Saturday night plans to take a female they like to the airport.

        • Amanda
          Amanda  1 weeks back

          I've learned so much from Jeannie Mai since this show started and I hope she understands how much it means to us when she talks about her life stories and lessons. A lot of can relate!

          • Amanda Sweeney
            Amanda Sweeney  1 weeks back

            That 👏 part Jeannie

            • Tony John
              Tony John  1 weeks back

              Her standards were low and then she got another black man !

              • Ashley Rodriguez
                Ashley Rodriguez  1 weeks back

                I love Jeannie so much❤

                • william carter
                  william carter  2 weeks back

                  The Bible says what a man thinketh so he is That's Heavy an oh so true...

                  • william carter
                    william carter  2 weeks back

                    Everything in life is about being your own upgrade but in order to be your own upgrade that means you have to be willing to take an honest look at your own bull, an if we do that we could put psychiatrists and psychologist out business and save ourselves a billion dollars an hour..

                    • L V
                      L V  2 weeks back

                      Something tells me that she's confused about relationships as a whole. She's comparing ex versus current boyfriend. She gotta let the past go because it seems to still be on her mind and will mess this new relationship up as well. Just my 2 cents, don't kill me.

                      • Dwight Gibson Jr Xfinity

                        True. We need to have aspirations for ourselves in order to have someone come into our lives to enhance the motivation for the lack thereof. Sometimes, especially in America, we are eaten to the point we can’t up lift ourselves; a supporting spark is needed. This perfectly comes through an opposite sex marriage. Why marriage? It is because people that have no vows to your life will at a weak point give up on you or grow bitter and leave off keeping you kindled; yet they want to be kindled if you always. You can stretch scenarios out of that, but the point is given.

                        My wife does the same. I invested in her to have a business, and I was all in. Nevertheless, being overly indecisive and unmotivated about her own desire to have a business left me unable to up lift her as she desired. If we both had the same passionate desire for the business that is understandable for me to be at par with her.

                        When you lose a precious thing you realize it, but when you women realize it, you don’t do the just thing and return to what was broken and repair. You like to move on as if a miracle healing will occur and you can try again with someone not knowing if your mistake or error. This never works the right way. Once you upgrade, return to repair the breach of vows, and be carefully long-suffering with healing.

                        This goes both ways, but men are very forgiving after an upgrade moment. We have a mind to repair.

                        Your sorrow from the story shows clearly you need to repair your breach of vows, unless the special case is he is not a devoted man to the Most High. The next man should heal you and benefit from your upgrade.

                        Anyways, this is small talk. You are right. Once you realize you change and try to be better.

                        • Asha Amore
                          Asha Amore  2 weeks back


                          • Gabrielle Ivie
                            Gabrielle Ivie  2 weeks back

                            You get so use to people letting you don’t to the point when someone doesn’t let you down it catches you off guard like hold on this couldn’t be right lol 😂😂😂😂

                            • Darkchild Starship
                              Darkchild Starship  2 weeks back

                              It's all fun til he get a stripper pregnant

                              • Anita Garbett
                                Anita Garbett  2 weeks back

                                Can someone make a compilation of Jeannie’s best stories?!

                                • Love
                                  Love  2 weeks back

                                  Those "white girls" fairy tales is how love and relationships are supposed to be not the bullshit you were us too. That just show the standards you had vs the standards the "white girls" didn't except.
                                  Pay attention and stop always talking bad about "white girls white women" because you were or is unhappy with excepting low standards! We can learn something from them.

                                  • Tshego LaBelle
                                    Tshego LaBelle  2 weeks back

                                    This is so true!! I had an ex tell me once that he only gave me the bare minimum because he knew that that's what I was willing to accept. As horrible as that may sound, he was telling the truth because at the time I didn't know my worth and was willing to lower my standards and accept mediocrity. Now that's all changed😂😂 DONE with that... I love myself too much to not do that again😍❤🤗

                                    • last chance
                                      last chance  2 weeks back

                                      Girls everything happens for good. He left you? Sis i swear on my life you gonna meet someone so much better just stay strong and FOCUS ON YOUR SELF,HEAL BABY GIRL❤❤❤

                                      • Patt Kate
                                        Patt Kate  2 weeks back

                                        "i've ubered through my whole marriage"
                                        that broke my heart. i'm so happy you found someone who loves you right, J!

                                        • mavishill
                                          mavishill  2 weeks back

                                          I really would like to hear at least one show discuss what women bring to relationship, what women do or should do for their boyfriend or husband besides the vagina. It's so politically incorrect even to suggest that women should do something for the man for once.

                                          • Naomi Mpana
                                            Naomi Mpana  2 weeks back

                                            COULD LISTEN TO JEANNIE ALL MF DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!! Goodness gracious.

                                            • Morga Bella
                                              Morga Bella  2 weeks back

                                              I can honestly relate. I think many of us can. The only difference is her strength. I absolutely love her and her courage to speak about it!

                                              • Zibby Zee
                                                Zibby Zee  2 weeks back

                                                The time I took to be alone by myself was my upgrade...Jeannie hit me with that one. Ladies keep them standards high. Know that you are to be treated right by a man. Some men play too many games and will have you playing right along with them. Keep your legs closed and stay on your A GAME. While single accomplish and do for self. You/I deserve that. Have something to bring to the table besides your caked up looks.

                                                • SARA
                                                  SARA  2 weeks back

                                                  I'm tired of her making it seem like Freddy was such a demon in their marriage like she was without fault.

                                                  • SARA
                                                    SARA  2 weeks back

                                                    No disrespect but dropping a girlfriend off at the airport is not that big a deal. My boyfriend did this for me at 17. Are we praising this because she's asian and hes black?

                                                    And to the goofy black women in the comments crying over this, do you think Jeezy would've done the same for you as a black woman? Lol

                                                    • Amilcar Polanen
                                                      Amilcar Polanen  2 weeks back

                                             if i could just find a girl who appreciates me like that.

                                                      • TheSoni83
                                                        TheSoni83  2 weeks back

                                                        I’m 35 been single for 8 years felt like these 8 years have taught me soooo much I understand Jeanie about the upgrade I get it.. my ex made me lower my standards I realised how dumb I was pining for him .. he made me have trust issues. I sometimes feel am I going to be single forever ... 😕

                                                        • SARA
                                                          SARA  2 weeks back

                                                          TheSoni83 I'm 35 too and feel the same way at time, but dont think its too late. I feel you find true love at any age and somebody who will value you. What ive learned is that I have to see value within myself, which I hadn't before due to low self esteem. Not anymore I wish you the best

                                                      • R D
                                                        R D  2 weeks back

                                                        Just know 1 thing 4 sho, Jeezy will drop U 2 the airport and that's special YEP he's a keeper 😂 Pass me a tissue 😂

                                                        • kuda xx
                                                          kuda xx  2 weeks back

                                                          Thanks Jeannie.. I like u now #respect

                                                          • Vanessa Westbrook
                                                            Vanessa Westbrook  2 weeks back

                                                            That is so real!

                                                            • Shamillah Kasemire
                                                              Shamillah Kasemire  2 weeks back

                                                              Jeannie mai deserved a black man on period i ain't playing race cards but they tend to care the most👌

                                                              • SARA
                                                                SARA  2 weeks back

                                                                Shamillah Kasemire 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that's a joke right? All these single mothers due to black men and they care the most? Girl

                                                            • Kristy Smith
                                                              Kristy Smith  2 weeks back

                                                              You have to have a standard before the relationship or you’ll take whatever they give and think it’s great.

                                                              • snenhlanhla nkomose
                                                                snenhlanhla nkomose  2 weeks back

                                                                jeannie is me ,im so used to doing things on my own i end up overly appreciating the bare minimum.i have this idont want to bother anyone attitude and it affecting how much effort people put to please me

                                                                • redblueorange
                                                                  redblueorange  2 weeks back

                                                                  I love u Jeannie Mai ♥️ may you be as cherished in your relationship as you have never been before.

                                                                  • Jason Shampansky
                                                                    Jason Shampansky  2 weeks back

                                                                    You sound like a white girl

                                                                    • AS
                                                                      AS  2 weeks back

                                                                      Yes let your man be a real man and protect you and be a gentlemen. Real men are protectors, providers and pursuers. Jeezy wants you to be in your feminine power and take care of you. Embrace your feminity and let him be the man of your dreams. Having high standards weeds out the bad men.

                                                                      • MzHoneySugga Pie
                                                                        MzHoneySugga Pie  2 weeks back

                                                                        Just BEAUTIFUL!!, & Wish her & her new Bae all the best 🌸

                                                                        • Marcus LosGreat
                                                                          Marcus LosGreat  2 weeks back

                                                                          She's overthinking too much

                                                                          • Bobby Brown
                                                                            Bobby Brown  2 weeks back

                                                                            What a black man that knows respect and value of a woman I don't believe it

                                                                            • Diana Ramirez
                                                                              Diana Ramirez  2 weeks back

                                                                              I love you Jeannie , I want me a Jeezy

                                                                              • SARA
                                                                                SARA  2 weeks back

                                                                                Diana Ramirez lol the bare minimum like dropping you off at an airport? You wanna be a single mother i see? Lol

                                                                            • Kimberley Sinclair
                                                                              Kimberley Sinclair  2 weeks back

                                                                              Love you Jeannie!! 🤗
                                                                              So happy for you.

                                                                              • Rilo Ross
                                                                                Rilo Ross  2 weeks back

                                                                                MFers get in a new relationship they think they got all the advice 🤣🤣🤣
                                                                                Shut up hoe lol

                                                                                • SARA
                                                                                  SARA  2 weeks back

                                                                                  Rilo Ross lol I know

                                                                              • KirahBear Darling
                                                                                KirahBear Darling  2 weeks back

                                                                                What happened to the longer videos bruh

                                                                                • Kiki Dejean
                                                                                  Kiki Dejean  2 weeks back

                                                                                  Adrienne spoke about that. She pretended to not be into affection because her ex (Leni I think) didn’t want to claim her so they never used to hold hands and be affectionate. She thought that was normal because that’s the way it was set up in her last relationship. Look at how cuddly she is with Israel. ☺️

                                                                                  • BlackK GMS
                                                                                    BlackK GMS  2 weeks back

                                                                                    Jeezy puttin in that WORK lol

                                                                                    • Nisha Jassal
                                                                                      Nisha Jassal  2 weeks back

                                                                                      Love you girl!!! Ahhh she has the best messages

                                                                                      • It's Kells
                                                                                        It's Kells  2 weeks back

                                                                                        UPGRADE UR STANDARDS LADIES 💯

                                                                                        • Sumaiyaahh
                                                                                          Sumaiyaahh  2 weeks back

                                                                                          Being alone and single and getting to know and love yourself is the biggest upgrade.