Life After My Parents Divorce | Caspar Lee: storybooth Stars

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  • Published: 07 May 2019
  • By Caspar Lee | Subscribe: bit.ly/sub2storybooth | Record your story @ storybooth.com or our iPhone app for a chance to get animated. Comment, like, share this story.

    Have you all seen Caspar Lee on social media? On YouTube or Instagram? Maybe you've seen him as he's been growing his acting career, or vlogging, or launching a new business venture. If you don't know him yet, you're about to, and you're probably about to see him EVERYWHERE, because he is very much on the rise - AND - he's our latest storybooth star!

    But sometimes when we see someone like Caspar we assume that the kind of pain and struggles that we'e been through couldn't have actually happened to him, that the true stories and scary stories we carry around with us are only ours, but in truth, we all have a storytime story to tell, and Caspar's story about his parents' divorce is one that so many share and can relate to.

    But, maybe the way things ended with him and his family, through his parents' divorce, is a little bit different than what we might expect to be normal, but it seems like it can be, or should be, and even though there was a lot pf pain and problems to get through, and a lot of counselling, in the end, Caspar's story time story is a happy one filled with love.

    It all started ten years ago when Caspar's Mother told him something that took him by surprise, sent him into anxiety and sadness that neared depression, and changed his life forever. His mom told him that she had met another man and that she and his father were going to break up and get a divorce. He was shocked, angry, and sad all at once.

    Even though his mom explained that she had to follow her heart, the strong conflicting emotions that Caspar felt wouldn't go away. And still, he had to act and pretend that everything was okay, even though everything that had just actually happened was the very stuff he used to have nightmares about.

    At school, even surrounded by his best friends, he couldn't really hide the fact that there were problems at home and that he was in pain. His teacher noticed, asked what was wrong, and Caspar lied and said he was feeling sick. He spent the rest of the day just sitting in bathroom stall at school, trying to get control of his emotions.

    He couldn't fully understand how his mom could break up a marriage of so many years, she explained to him that she and his dad had been fighting and arguing, all the time, for years. She hadn't meant to, but she met and fell in love with an amazing new man. Even though Caspar agreed to give this new man a chance, he was worried about his father who had always depended on his mother, who was a team with her, a family, and now Caspar worried that without counselling his dad might fall into a depression and need therepy.

    Even though Caspar felt that if he liked his mom's new partner, after the divorce, that it would be a betrayal of his father, and he felt really guilty about it BUT this new dad was a really nice man, who truly loved and cared about his mom.

    He felt terrible and guilty and a lot of pain, but his Dad told him not to feel that way and to know, like he did, that there was enough room in his heart for two, or three, or more. And, after a few years had passed his father met the new love of his life, a new mom for Caspar ( not at all a stepmonster) and also a wonderful and amazing person, and a single mom. It was a new life for all!

    Now his mother and father have each been remarried to their new husbands and wives for nearly a decade, and Caspar has more siblings, nieces and nephews than he can count on all his fingers and toes, and he has learned so much more from his new sets of parents, all together, than he could have with just his originals, together like they were. His life has been filled - by this new larger family - with more love than he could have dreamed, and his parents are happier in their new lives than they have ever been.

    His parents' divorce has taught him that even bad and painful experiences have the potential to lead to good and positive ones. Relationships don't have to last forever - life is about the journey, not the destination.
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Comments • 3 330

  • Caspar
    Caspar  6 months back

    Thanks for letting me tell my story guys!

    • King
      King  2 weeks back

      Last reply heyyyyyy

    • Liem Hoang
      Liem Hoang  1 months back

      It’s ok my mom said one day she will divorce my dad and I hope it’s not true but your not the only one with this problem😁

    • Unique Aniyah
      Unique Aniyah  2 months back

      Yes

    • kirsty chapman
      kirsty chapman  2 months back

      Hi Caspar

    • Yoosung Choi
      Yoosung Choi  2 months back

      CaSPAR I LOVE U SO MUCH

  • AltijdTrumbler
    AltijdTrumbler  2 days back

    this is not really a special story.

    • zoe arevalo
      zoe arevalo  2 days back

      Correction:70% actually

      • Queen Fredriana
        Queen Fredriana  3 days back

        Yo dad said there is more room for two well my dad said “yo step dad a f* n*”

        • Foxychu
          Foxychu  4 days back

          My parents almost divorce

          • Marty Eddy
            Marty Eddy  4 days back

            Haha 2 mom 2 dad

            • kid A.H.I
              kid A.H.I  7 days back

              3:28

              Looking like a third wheel, not gonna lie.

              • ELIAM MON
                ELIAM MON  1 weeks back

                My family is divorce too😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

                • Som X Candy
                  Som X Candy  1 weeks back

                  If that was me I would be crying every day

                  • Kxasia & Dxniel
                    Kxasia & Dxniel  1 weeks back

                    My parents are going to be dovorced 😭

                    • Chayut Taweeskulchai
                      Chayut Taweeskulchai  2 weeks back

                      Call me harsh but divorce are cowardice and self fish, The parents can choose to fight to maintain the family but this 50% choose to runaway

                      Divorce is betrayal

                      • blitszina
                        blitszina  3 hours back

                        Not quite,if you don't love someone anymore and you tried everything to fix it there's nothing to do about it
                        Yeah there are people who divorce just because they hit a bump and that's not good
                        But most don't allow that to break a marriage, it's either abuse or not loving someone anymore that makes divorce a better option than staying together
                        Because the kid will only feel worse and grow up with more problems if their parents are forced to stay with each other when it's not working anymore

                    • Tachanka Elite Skin
                      Tachanka Elite Skin  2 weeks back

                      I wish that my dad was like that. He’s a cheating bitch and has introduced me to like 4 or 5 different girls. Also when I talk about my moms boyfriend (who’s actually nicer than my dad), he gets super pissed and jealous and starts talking about him right in front of me even though he’s never met him

                      • Gaming with Carmeloboiss

                        Thank you for this video i feel so much better

                        • Homero Eduardo Martinez

                          I cried like I had mental break down my parents weren't officially divorce they just said my dad isn't gonna live with us anymore 2 weeks past I see my dad and mom happy I was thing is gonna be back moving in when mom went to buy groceries my dad comes out the car with bags with clothes I knew everything was gonna go back and it did now he living with me at the house and im happy that I knew they were gonna come back together

                          • Tiffany Goodman
                            Tiffany Goodman  3 weeks back

                            My parents are technically divorced and after 5 years still hate the guy my mom's dating, I WILL NEVER STOP HATING HIM

                            • Thot Police
                              Thot Police  4 weeks back

                              This story is like mine except my mom cheated and always makes excuses so she looks like the good guy.. some times I wish I had no parents..

                              • kemlyn lewis
                                kemlyn lewis  4 weeks back

                                Why can't your mom new husband and your Dad new wife just switch and their you have your dad and yeah take it and cool it

                                • k d
                                  k d  4 weeks back

                                  I hate both of my parents

                                  • gachamjdawolf
                                    gachamjdawolf  4 weeks back

                                    When I was five my parents separated my little brother was probably three or four but I was only five I didn’t no what was going on I was homeschooled my hole life and didn’t get a good education my mom took me and my little brother with my grandma and it was time for me to start school it was my first time in third grade it was ok but....then..my mom got a boyfriend I hated him I felt soo betrayed for no reason but I soo learned to live with it on the weekends we would go with my dad soon my mom decided to move in with her boyfriend but it didn’t last long I was already nine and my mom broke up with her boyfriend a few weeks later we were moving from place to place then my mom found another boyfriend this time he was cool he took us to places and we started school again I started in fourth grade in this school but...summer...came I know people would be summer is the best but for me that summer was the worst me and my little brother spent the summer with my dad that’s were the drama started I was treated like a slave to my sister my sister was soo stupid that her boyfriend got her pregnant but guess what I was the one taking car of my nephew wile my stupid sister was out partying and the she told us that some random guy got her pregnant again her boyfriend left her and now I would take car of my little brother and my nephew and niece but one day my dad told me I have to either choose him or my mom later he got a girlfriend with two kids he would say mean things to me so i ended it I went with my mom I’m now in fifth grade and I’m ten years old but things just got worst now my mom might have breast cancer I was crying none stop I talked to my school principal and every teacher they told me to talk to to this day my mom is fighting for her life she also has something wrong with her liver and bones I’m trying my best and I love my mom she has been the only one who has been there for me and I pray for her this is my story

                                    • i_just_want _some_ice
                                      i_just_want _some_ice  1 months back

                                      So here's MY story

                                      My parents also divorced. They always fight. There is one time my parents got into a fight. They were screaming and shouting. Me and my sisters go inside my room and played together and pretend like nothing happened. So the next year, i met my stepmother. She was so nice. Every day she would come at my dad's(biological) house and played with us. A couple months later, my (biogical) mother say "hey what about we go out and eat?" i was like yeah sure! So we sat at a long table. And then my (biogical) went to order our food. I stayed at the table and waited. A couple minutes later, a man came a said hi. I answered. He talked with us about some stuff. Long story short, the man was my mother's (biogical) old school boyfriend. So they are in love. Bla bla bla. One year later, I started to eat a small amount of food. I didn't know what's wrong. So the next year, my mom(biological) took me to the hospital. The doctors didn't know what's wrong too. So they asked me to go to another hospital. The sad story is, i was diagnosed with lymphoma cancer stage 4. Short story, i got home but two days later, i got a really bad stomach ache. My mom took me back to the hospital. My dad(biological) took care of me now. So in islam, we celebrate Aidilfitri. It's like Christmas but in Islamic. I asked to raya with my sisters. Short story, i cried every single day. I was really mad at my mom (biological). I really miss my sisters. Sometimes i cried randomly because i missed them. But I'm still glad. I'm still alive.


                                      If you don't know what lymphoma is, please go Google. I'm a Malaysian person i don't know much words. 🙏😭

                                      • A human being
                                        A human being  1 months back

                                        Your kinda a pussy I was 6 when my parents divorced and I took it like a man

                                        • SourGeoduck 8462
                                          SourGeoduck 8462  1 months back

                                          ha suckes to be you

                                          • Tahlia Cantwell
                                            Tahlia Cantwell  1 months back

                                            thts caspar lee isnt it

                                            • Ireland Mackeage
                                              Ireland Mackeage  1 months back

                                              My parents aren’t divorced but I know they fell out of love a little but my mom has epeilepsie and he need to take care of her so something bad doesn’t happen and they are doing it for me and I know they love me and I love them I’m trying to make them happy but sometimes it’s just hard and I’ve fell into a depression so if anyone can relate to me please like and comment I would really like some support

                                              • Joker the Clown
                                                Joker the Clown  1 months back

                                                This video was made one day after my birthday

                                                • Dat Lemon Boi
                                                  Dat Lemon Boi  1 months back

                                                  I could never talk to my mother again. I would hate her.

                                                  • Herowebcomics
                                                    Herowebcomics  1 months back

                                                    Divorce sucks!
                                                    But i am glad that things worked out the way they did for you!

                                                    • shadowclaw films of warrior cats

                                                      My parents separated when I was two. I'm used to my life

                                                      • soft hunii
                                                        soft hunii  1 months back

                                                        My parents just divorced today. On the same day my mom left to go to my grandmothers house in another city. I still had to go to school and everything. I just can’t believe this is happening all at once.

                                                        • Lee Avila
                                                          Lee Avila  1 months back

                                                          Is that what you look like!!!

                                                          • Aqua Mint
                                                            Aqua Mint  1 months back

                                                            Very relatable, I see my dad all the time though, but my parents divorced when I was 6 and I’m now 10, and I can’t even remember my parents being married anymore! I like how things are now

                                                            • Katiana Matlosz
                                                              Katiana Matlosz  2 months back

                                                              Roses are red
                                                              Violets are blue
                                                              Ur sad about the divorce
                                                              And I am too

                                                              • Ianah.K
                                                                Ianah.K  2 months back

                                                                good story, I can relate because my parents separated too, my mom married another guy my dad took 5 years to get married again too .Now they’re both happy.

                                                                • ATEBATE GAMING
                                                                  ATEBATE GAMING  2 months back

                                                                  The question about if your parents are divorced I pick neither because once I was born my dad left all of us

                                                                  • uzu 30
                                                                    uzu 30  2 months back

                                                                    When the advert is better than the video -just me?

                                                                    • Braydon ward
                                                                      Braydon ward  2 months back

                                                                      lol this was on my bday

                                                                      • yo mama
                                                                        yo mama  2 months back

                                                                        My parents divorced too

                                                                        • River Moore
                                                                          River Moore  2 months back

                                                                          At least u get two Christmases and sometimes two b-days but ur always sad and don't know what to do and u never know who to blame

                                                                          • No Questions YT
                                                                            No Questions YT  2 months back

                                                                            My parents divorced when I was 8 it was very rough because I had to choose who to go with me being a girl I was a daddy's girl but I choose to go with my mom I felt so crushed I felt nothing and I still feel nothing I'm 13 it's almost been 5 years and when I moved 5 hours away from my dad I felt isolated I felt cold I didn't know what the feeling in my stomach was but after a year I found out what depression was and a month after I found out that i had it I knew why my world was crumbling it's because of what I've been through all the pain every second I seem to feel like I was worthless I stopped trying I was slowly sinking into this web of lies that told me I was nothing a disappointment a mistake I want to get help but I can't seem to tell anyone not even my mom she's so stressed out I don't want to put the fact that I've felt like nothing for almost 5 years I've always thought that I was nothing that no one loved me I thought I was a disappointment I still feel that pain in my chest it hurts I want to cry but I can't I want to feel but at the same time I don't.......

                                                                            • Lily bug
                                                                              Lily bug  2 months back

                                                                              THANK YOU BECAUSE I THINK MY PARENTS ARE GOING TO DIVORCE BUT NOW I KNOW EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE OK

                                                                              • B O B A C R E A M yt
                                                                                B O B A C R E A M yt  2 months back

                                                                                My parents are divorced to ;( I'm also one of the reasons my parents went to court cause I said I wanted to see my dad as much as I see my mom so they asked the court which is best. Also I'm ashamed of myself for saying that cause now I have to be included in choices sometimes ;/

                                                                                • Hannah Troyer
                                                                                  Hannah Troyer  2 months back

                                                                                  I felt this and it made me tear up

                                                                                  • Con_Corn
                                                                                    Con_Corn  2 months back

                                                                                    Okay but why did his original parents look alike?

                                                                                    • Bianca Bai
                                                                                      Bianca Bai  2 months back

                                                                                      U feel you bro 💔 it's devastating I was so young

                                                                                      • Alannah Rickwood
                                                                                        Alannah Rickwood  2 months back

                                                                                        Ik how it feels bout divorce, my parents r going through one :(

                                                                                        • Rickypotato
                                                                                          Rickypotato  2 months back

                                                                                          And the new partners divorce and just keep multiplying his parents

                                                                                          • The Alpha Penguin
                                                                                            The Alpha Penguin  2 months back

                                                                                            you have 4 parents

                                                                                            • Sans DaOgGamer
                                                                                              Sans DaOgGamer  2 months back

                                                                                              reason storybooth is the best





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